"Most of the women in your life will outlast the men in your life. The SNL ladies — Maya Rudolph, Rachel Dratch, Tina — and I text pictures of our kids back and forth all the time. It keeps us connected. As my nanny used to say, the older you get the more important it is to know people that knew you when. I also like hanging out with women who are older than me. I like asking them how they navigate life, what they’ve learned. I respond to people telling me about their experiences rather than telling me what to do. That’s the Boston in me. That’s why I’m not very good with personal trainers."